Q:I'm not trans, but my cousin just came out as FTM. I was wondering if you or any of your trans* followers could provide some advice as to how I could help and support them in the best way possible :)

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  1. shadesofaspectrum said: Respect their pronouns, don’t ask them if they’re going to “get the surgery,” don’t tell them what they should/shouldn’t wear without them asking. You’re already off to a good start by asking this. :)
  2. youflewintomyheart said: The most important thing is calling him by his prefered name and pronouns. Ask him if there is anything you can do to help him go futher in his transition
  3. alextheokay said: One of the first things is you ask about pronouns. And try your absolute best to respect them. And listen to them when they need it but don’t pry. Seek to understand, but understand that you can never fully understand.
  4. takeawalkindansshoes said: let them know if they ever wanna talk you are there and when they are ready for prefered name and pronouns that you will use them and correct yourself if you slip up. :) just reaching out is amazing
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