Q:My boyfriend just came out as FTM... no one really knows except me. Tbh, I saw it coming months ago. I still love him but I feel a little lost. I don't know if it's because I'm still not sure where I stand in the spectrum or what. Any suggestions?
O: It’s good that you’ve adjusted to already calling him your boyfriend and using male pronouns.
You don’t have to stand anywhere in the spectrum if you don’t want to, it’s your choice how you identify.
I’m sure all he will want is for you to love and support him, no matter what :)
Q:Hello, I'm sorry for spamming your probably very full inbox, but I just need to tell somebody this. I got my first binder today and I'm so excited! I've been trying on all my clothes and I just love the way my chest looks. It's so flat! I haven't been this happy for months. I'm a closeted ftm so I can't talk about it to anyone, and I just kinda needed to get this off my chest (no pun intended.)
O: I’m very happy for you! I remember getting my first binder, was such an amazing feeling. I think it’s a very important first step in many FtM’s transition! :)